Mak said, "Be friends with EVERYONE....even da ada boyfriends pon..jangan nak setia memBABI BUTA...sebab dia boyfriend awak je...bukan SUAMI...plus kalo ada ramai kawan, awak bleyh pilih the best for your future...because you will stay together in the future with your husband NOT and NEVER stay together with your boyfriend!!!"
THEN dia cakap lagi, "when you meet with someone yang awak rasa selesa bila bersama dengan dia tapi ade here and there yg KURANG...just ACCEPT him...sebab ALLAH memang jadikan pasangan kita yang berlawanan sifatnya dengan kita...YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE BUT DONT BE TOO CHOOSY...there is no MR.PERFECT or MR.RIGHT...even awak pon tak PERFECT...the most important is TOLERATE...sbb tolerate la mak n abah bleyh stay together for 15 years...but he never appreciate it and we have to end it....so I hope you will get the BEST for you...."
Opah plak cakap,"kalo ada orang laki nak kat kita terima jela...jangan pandang reta(harta) ngat(sangat)...biala dia keja kecik dari kita..mana tau rezeki dia dengan kita...asalkan dia rajin,brtanggungjawab,senonoh perangai,and agama dia ok..cukup da tu.."(maaf le opah saye org kampung je..sbb tu bahasa dia gitu..)
ATEH saya paling best...dia kasi saya benda ni....
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t "be friends."
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing cute about
baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists
of two whole individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun; even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re
always readily available to him—he takes it for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
